Updates (May 30, 2026) Part 2

Having a great education system and top students in X country is great.

But you got to understand the long term, the passion of the student over a lifetime.

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This is something hard to understand overall.

We think men all party and want to have fun.

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In 2003, I thought I could do it all.

Then sadly I found I could not and tried to find my way home.

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Life sucks if you just don’t do what you were born to do.

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There are people including government that tell you how it should be.

But no, God decided everything at first but based on the World conditions and not your home country.

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What was I supposed to do?

Let’s analyze that carefully now.

… on next post.

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There is something missing when working in Vietnam …

Even if your parents or aunts or uncles or cousins are working in top companies in Vietnam, something feels not complete.

Yes, there are different cultures and the youth clam towards everything East Asian and Western, but that is not the point.

I went back to Vietnam in 2016 and was dating.

I realized everything about dating in Vietnam was messed up in terms of fulfilling goals in working modern society.

Vietnamese think it is easy to land a job at a Fortune 5 company in the USA. but it isn’t.

Race, class, money, culture and who you know matters.

Fortune 5 companies are built on the Western culture of race and democracy.

You have to be able to absorb and deconstruct Western culture and biases to make something of yourself in Fortune 5 companies.

Basically understand and deconstruct consumer behaviour and sell them more to use to get fat and gluttonous. Sell things in phases and say at this stage in the game, you need to consume this and lead them.

It is a race to see how much you can sell and how to make the consumer perceive they are benefiting and getting the greatest value.

But not letting them know that that life is about your constructive passion and working hard 60+ hours a week without superficial distraction that flares your reptile brain.

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The reason why I am working is that I messed up in life not listening to mum.

I am chasing a good life that my friend has.

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Time to grapple.

Nothing really change in my family since 2015 when my sister wanted to relocate the entire family back to Vietnam because we had no relationships or traction in 2015.

My sister even wanted to make a business in Vietnam as of late.

So things failed.

Time for everyone to learn engineering to build product and the run off creates memories and good subproducts.

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The racism in North America is so great that people threaten and try to maim people.

Get off Western social media to live normal … Western social media is so ego centric that it causes Asian brains to melt.

Racism is so potent that even people would spend good cash money to send a YouTube video short to the people they hate. Good Lord I am off evil “distraction game” Instagram that tries to disrupt life to make money.

But they forget I am 50:50. I am First Peoples of Canada and there is no time to bother as in the back of the mind there is “snow and work” in Canada to worry about and aging infrastructure I have to worry about. Also, I am Vietnamese a very little bit kind of but born in Canada. So you can make fun of us as in Asia we have to act tributary which doesn’t translate here making it hostile in the West.

So at the end of the day, Kyle Le and the rest of the Vietnamese-centric boys went back to Asia to live because 1:1 translation of Vietnamese culture to Western ends up in hostility and violence.

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That means 2nd generation Vietnamese born in the West are pretty screwed as because that means anything positive spirals to zero into the negative as anything deemed positive gets hostilty with Canadians and other immigrants.

Immigrants from South Asia and East Asia and their children born in the West have no power in Vietnam. The frequency changes them as they land to be understanding why Vietnamese are the way they are in Vietnam.

It is just power and hostility here in North America.

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So it was a joke to be born in Canada??? For a full South Vietnamese born in Canada?

If I live negative, that is OK and seen right as the scapegoat. Blame it on the welfare guy doing nothing …

If I make software, that is also bad. So I make what? Sell fries?

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The Vietnamese that came to the West around 51 years ago. Does anyone really understand the past, present and future?

I see no answers.

I am replying to my feed and get nothing back in return except deal with the institutions.

But Vietnamese are new to this country and are the last people in Eurasia to exit.

So there is no answers just powerplays on how you should respond and act according to … ??? which examples can I follow to a ‘T’ ??? I guess there is none but hostility.

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Basically there is footage of Vietnamese in 2026 on YouTube filmed during the Vietnam War making Vietnamese looking like impoverished monkey people with no sense of direction. They frame Vietnamese as farmer brown people asking the West for help to escape. They use specific scenes of how bad we can look and film us squatting to look like uncivilized people in 2026 still.

But the reason why we look that way is to avoid the power claims of superpowers of South and East Asia and elsewhere. We make ourselves lower to avoid them as they are regular visitors who want to claim the spice, fruit, soil and people. To avoid people is to make yourself look unappetizing. It is simple like that in Vietnam.

But that doesn’t translate in the West. You must glow and be masculine as much as possible to live and work here or become a recluse programmer. I know first hand LOL!

It is impossible to be normal and equal in society if you are born here with that type of Vietnamese history being tributary.

So we got to go back to Vietnam if you are 2nd Generation Vietnamese born in Canada as the Western media wrecks individual culture of everyone.

So if you want a kid and a family of your own cycle back to Vietnam or build up your community in Cali to have only Vietnamese around. But no to hostility. Better to cycle back home and have only Vietnamese immigrants running the market.

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I look weak and weak because I want no trouble and like the way I think.

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Go to Vietnam white ‘Canadians’ and white ‘Americans’ it is nothing like you think.

You expect Vietnamese to be sub servant and easy, but living in Vietnam sucks kind of. There is actual work that needs to be done, not just drinking coffee and tea all day … just like every other country there is upkeep. And you got to worry about big China asking to pay their price for goods and services as they think fruit and vegetables grow out of anywhere. There are 2 system or 3 systems prying for your dollar. It sucks. No cohesion. It is horrible then you realize you only have your large extended family.

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I am getting no traction here after 7 years doing programming.

Life is not moving forward???

… Need to find the problem … probably lies in Vietnam.