Story

This will write the story.

I was compliant and passive until I wasn’t.

This part of the blog will explain the process and story.

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So the summary of this life story was this:

1. Following in refugee success and doing medicine or research.
2. Following in 2nd gen aspirations of being Canadian/Westerner
3. Just working and maturing to a point??? where it is all about having children and raising them ???

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But after everything you realize life is kind just making kids and raising them to push so they don’t give up and don’t lose seeing the horizon.

Basically it is a fine game of zoning out working and zoning out at home doing your thing??? Keeping to yourself quietly reading books and drinking coffee and working your job?

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So I was good since 2018, then God gave me this.

Then still being good, God taught me this: Life is keeping your children in check looking above the horizon while you zone out doing your work. That is all there is to life. Looking after your children letting them know to keep their noses clean and telling them to work and study in a field (probably their hobbies) where they can get in the trance of learning and growing forever.

That seems like a way to live good and in control.

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The question is then, what to focus on?

If you aren’t doing things that aren’t fulfilling then what?

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So writing this paragraph is April 17, 2026.

What did I learn.

I combined with Tammy Nguyen and we worked together since 2021. There were 3 pivots during that time.

1. Made the 3-tab Windows Debloater
2. Education portals or at least expanded
3. Windows Universal Debloater that are International Language Learn Tools really now instead of debloaters.

So working with Tammy we got something really different.

But to move further you realize race, culture and society are an obstacle.

To have a family you must have a car, house and a career to make money. If you believe in God everything should be OK regardless.

I got picked on being Vietnamese going up and I helped myself out doing thinking for 15+ more years. It was simply taking the time and working with similar frequency people here and remotely. Simple hobbies you enjoy.

Now how about have a family and raising kids while in North America?

It will be bad because I have done this stuff that was alright really. But some people don’t believe in God.

Having my kids in Canada?

Or back to Vietnam?

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My kids will be picked up on and live in the sidelines again like me buy worse and weaker in North America.