A resource for immigrants, refugees and 2nd generation

A resource for immigrants, refugees and 2nd generation

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Updates (May 29, 2026) Part 8

I am responding to the feed.

So basically in Vietnam, they are talking about bigger things now like ‘life’.

Instead of the knowing yourself and the things you do and things you do for work and passion, there is life beyond the four walls.

That is good.

Good discussions.

All Vietnamese in Vietnam need is to play some tennis with Vietnamese born overseas to see how the crazy the West is.

Yes, we suffer and have dual personalities or more. We like to think we are Vietnamese but we are North American and like to travel and go camping and like buffets.

Because of this dual lineage, it makes us work hard as the resources here in Americas are so abundant. No one is really working that hard unless they have a girlfriend/wife that understands them or they are chasing …

So do school, work on you passions 200%, after join a VSA Discord and see who gives you a ‘heart’.

Every Vietnamese going to university theoretical study (not college) is suffering the same as you in Americas. The university where you went shows who you are compatible with. Same university = same growing pains and experiences of young adulthood between Vietnamese going to university. The good and the bad and ugly show up during 2nd year and cut you during 4th.

After you do your passions 200% after university. Try to hit the ball out of the stadium by just zoning out for decades (you will arrive at something unique at least), return back to your university to find that one girl who will bitch you out. If she can bitch you out then she is your friend.

God is always watching.

The compatibility of women is based on physical interactions and number of relationships she has usually.

If you keep your count low and just study, God will give you everything. Divinity is everything.

Then the girl will you meet at the VSA will have the same vision and perspective as you so you can chill … chill for life because life is about chilling in the First World.