Updates (May 30, 2026) Part 2
Having a great education system and top students in X country is great.
But you got to understand the long term, the passion of the student over a lifetime.
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This is something hard to understand overall.
We think men all party and want to have fun.
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In 2003, I thought I could do it all.
Then sadly I found I could not and tried to find my way home.
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Life sucks if you just don’t do what you were born to do.
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There are people including government that tell you how it should be.
But no, God decided everything at first but based on the World conditions and not your home country.
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What was I supposed to do?
Let’s analyze that carefully now.
… on next post.
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There is something missing when working in Vietnam …
Even if your parents or aunts or uncles or cousins are working in top companies in Vietnam, something feels not complete.
Yes, there are different cultures and the youth clam towards everything East Asian and Western, but that is not the point.
I went back to Vietnam in 2016 and was dating.
I realized everything about dating in Vietnam was messed up in terms of fulfilling goals in working modern society.
Vietnamese think it is easy to land a job at a Fortune 5 company in the USA. but it isn’t.
Race, class, money, culture and who you know matters.
Fortune 5 companies are built on the Western culture of race and democracy.
You have to be able to absorb and deconstruct Western culture and biases to make something of yourself in Fortune 5 companies.
Basically understand and deconstruct consumer behaviour and sell them more to use to get fat and gluttonous. Sell things in phases and say at this stage in the game, you need to consume this and lead them.
It is a race to see how much you can sell and how to make the consumer perceive they are benefiting and getting the greatest value.
But not letting them know that that life is about your constructive passion and working hard 60+ hours a week without superficial distraction that flares your reptile brain.
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The reason why I am working is that I messed up in life not listening to mum.
I am chasing a good life that my friend has.
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Time to grapple.
Nothing really change in my family since 2015 when my sister wanted to relocate the entire family back to Vietnam because we had no relationships or traction in 2015.
My sister even wanted to make a business in Vietnam as of late.
So things failed.
Time for everyone to learn engineering to build product and the run off creates memories and good subproducts.
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The racism in North America is so great that people threaten and try to maim people.
Get off Western social media to live normal … Western social media is so ego centric that it causes Asian brains to melt.
Racism is so potent that even people would spend good cash money to send a YouTube video short to the people they hate. Good Lord I am off evil “distraction game” Instagram that tries to disrupt life to make money.
But they forget I am 50:50. I am First Peoples of Canada and there is no time to bother as in the back of the mind there is “snow and work” in Canada to worry about and aging infrastructure I have to worry about. Also, I am Vietnamese a very little bit kind of but born in Canada. So you can make fun of us as in Asia we have to act tributary which doesn’t translate here making it hostile in the West.
So at the end of the day, Kyle Le and the rest of the Vietnamese-centric boys went back to Asia to live because 1:1 translation of Vietnamese culture to Western ends up in hostility and violence.
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That means 2nd generation Vietnamese born in the West are pretty screwed as because that means anything positive spirals to zero into the negative as anything deemed positive gets hostilty with Canadians and other immigrants.
Immigrants from South Asia and East Asia and their children born in the West have no power in Vietnam. The frequency changes them as they land to be understanding why Vietnamese are the way they are in Vietnam.
It is just power and hostility here in North America.
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So it was a joke to be born in Canada??? For a full South Vietnamese born in Canada?
If I live negative, that is OK and seen right as the scapegoat. Blame it on the welfare guy doing nothing …
If I make software, that is also bad. So I make what? Sell fries?
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The Vietnamese that came to the West around 51 years ago. Does anyone really understand the past, present and future?
I see no answers.
I am replying to my feed and get nothing back in return except deal with the institutions.
But Vietnamese are new to this country and are the last people in Eurasia to exit.
So there is no answers just powerplays on how you should respond and act according to … ??? which examples can I follow to a ‘T’ ??? I guess there is none but hostility.