A resource for immigrants, refugees and 2nd generation

A resource for immigrants, refugees and 2nd generation

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Updates (June 14, 2026)

Once you do social media … like a YouTube channel then that is it for Asian people …

You get labelled in a way that messes up the mind for people like me and worse when we get older and see life like our parents.

Are you saying being on YouTube as an Asian entertainer is a good thing and positive rather than … what?

If you say because you have lots of followers over the years that makes you a positive influence?

Or is programming in the darkness and margins with the same number of downloads?

Are you really comparing a Vietnamese to other Asians? If so why?

Well I am off YouTube. That makes me Amish. No reason to talk or compare for the rest of our existence.

Lots of Asians picking on South East Asians for what? To fight for views ??? Stir up the condensed milk in our coffee?

I see that if you are pure South East Asian, you might not want to be on YouTube.

Life is not defined by YouTube as you can look the other way really. We live in the land of Freedom and equality. Asians fighting other Asians gets so bad and evil.

Anyways I am off YouTube for a week and now life is good. Food tastes great and I lost some weight. I did not know I was targeted by groups of people over the last year because I rose.

When people make videos they specifically target my mindset in a good and bad way. Mostly bad to get views and get my reaction.

So if I am off YouTube, who are they targeting now? The next guy. There is always the next guy and the next.

When you get in your 40s, you realize social media is craps. Your parents knew this. We never needed social media as that makes everyone hyper and less reflective. It makes people depressed to a point of giving up and giving up on life. It is a weapon to destroy attention and intelligence. If you focus on it so much it might help you do e-commerce but at the end of the day, it wasn’t needed. It took focus off the written word of textbooks.

If your significant other uses TikTok and Instagram a lot then you might need to shape them back to normalcy.

Thinking with out the constant feed is 200% healthy.

If you get out of the circle of social media users, what happens? Nothing, life continues as it did 100 years ago. You knead bread and bake it. Yum … now you need butter.