Updates (July 28, 2026) Part 2
Immigrant parents succeed doing some business (rentals, small businesses, restaurants). Defacto for immigrants (sell, sell sell ethnic goods and services).
Their Westernized children have 2 cultures and they go mad in Americas because of opposite cultures colliding.
The American is “sex, drugs and rock & roll”, “go-go-go/hit the gas pedal”, “live fast die young” and “high level” thinking and being while Vietnamese are laid back farmers under tributary state from neighbours for 10,000+ years while maintaining the overgrown lush deltas. The climate dictates life.
So as Vietnamese born in West reach ages 40-50+ … they lose their senses as marriage and raising children come into play and old age sets in.
Because of the dual cultures it is best to default to the more laid back one … and go home?
Return home because the conditioned “Vietnamese farmer stereotype” stunted growth and sensibilities of Vietnamese who live in white majority areas growing up? This is a serious issue. The farmer stereotype was embodied and instilled during grade school for fun, safety and survival.
Basically the different dual polarities of Vietnamese to Whites caused this. The cartoonish Asian farmer stereotype was instilled in Vietnamese born in the West and the Vietnamese accepted it. It caused trouble down the road as in life, people still expect that stereotype too in everyday life on the street. It is horrible.
The white majority towns and cities stereotypes conditioned the Vietnamese youth to not think broader and bigger causing a lot of problems just because different polar cultures/frequencies clashed and could not mingle. The white majority held stereotypes because it is the North American way (frequency) to feel and do this to Vietnamese for saving their culture and mind and lifestyle. The North American frequency causes this act and interactions for the last 50+ years and ongoing as frequencies don’t change.
But the aftermath of some Vietnamese is to succeed hard during their youth to not think this way and study.
But ultimately returning home one day???
That is why you see Vietnamese overseas returning home.
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Even during post-secondary school it doesn’t go away …
The only way to avoid being labelled is to move away so that Vietnamese are seen at the top/near the top in terms of hierarchy. All of this is based on frequency.
That is what Vietnamese from Vietnam don’t understand. Vietnamese from Vietnam want the Hollywood life and access and status but it doesn’t work that way. There are actual barriers in the West to talk and socialize and think for control and for development and help. They see you differently and you must be someone special with a special hook to open their minds and allow which is tiring. Tiring as you slowly become First Peoples too.
As a Vietnamese born in Canada have to default act as a subservient Asian slave when working public service jobs. This compounded by also becoming a First Peoples too of Canada and born First Peoples.
So it is best to do is return to Vietnam to restart the cycle and immigrant later again with my grandchildren.
1492 – 1955, America caused the Vietnam War because they wanted to go ‘home’ to Eurasia to forever growing lush tropical foods and climate. I feel this because I worked so hard for the past 42 years doing unique coding and want to return to where bamboo grows forever and can be eaten. I paid my dues to society and cash out.
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But there is global warming. Now Vietnamese have to stay indoors to work, live and learn …
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So you got the cycle now just like East Indians returning home to India to live and work sometimes and the Chinese going home for life.