Updates (July 22, 2026) Part 3
So 42 years of my life I was living in Durham Region.
Mother and father are immigrants and still act like immigrants
Brother and sisters don’t know how to have a relationship and say they are perfect. They are waiting around for the perfect immigrant from Vietnam to marry who asks from them for PhDs and MD and CEO positions in Western companies. LOL! They are messed up as that is what the parents said would happen. LOL!
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So finally I ask God for help in 2018 and am met with Vietnamese 2nd gen born in the GTA who don’t give a rat’s ass about immigrants or weird siblings that has wishful immigrant thinking.
So my life was a sham all my life.
Parent immigrants know nothing about compatibility
Siblings who live in Durham know nothing unless it is a fairy tale.
Life is whatever with 2nd Gen Vietnamese in the GTA mostly Toronto.
Parents and siblings look sky high when life is practical in Toronto.
Get your banh mi and soup and eat it.
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YouTube and media is garbage asking you to do noble things but life is practical and normal once someone reaches out to you. Nothing is perfect. YouTube is an act and show.
YouTube and social media actually wastes your time and make you crazy and exhausted so the hard working people in society win, have families, money, houses and cars. There is no point of watching YouTube to be honest when the daily national newspaper has the same topics but with less confusion and straight to the point.
All the white people and immigrants walking around the grocery store know nothing about you. They have their stereotypes and ideals and un-ideals about you. Only 2nd Gen Vietnamese know the truth and it is whatever in Canada.
Don’t entertain anyone except your same people which are 2nd Gen.
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And the worst part is that your immigrant parents and siblings are on YouTube soaking up the misinformation and wasting their lives away. They are itching for approval and attention like the latest fake YouTubers living it up for the camera. Real life is 9 – 5 and not video.
They say relationships are a waste of time and everyone should live for themselves with a pet and die with the 9-5 the true American way. Work and love yourself as the world is full of hate and bullshit. No families, no lovers, no children.
When in reality all you have to do is open a real estate business renting out to renters or open your own teaching education business to avoid the negativity.
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Did the students in Vietnam glued to TikTok and Instagram scare away my siblings from teaching back in 2015 – 2016?
Maybe yes.