After the whatever …
A 2nd generation Vietnamese woman ‘born in Canada’ does not marry a guy based on his job. She wants him living a balanced life in healthcare working as a ‘lab tech’ or ‘a nurse’ (constantly learning and working so not comparisons or hate if external issues arise) so they can drive around eating at the AYCE buffets 1-2 times every 1-2 months with a soda/water lemon.
They just want to hang out because they were taught by the FUCKEN CANADIAN SYSTEM all jobs and skills are possible especially when you are Vietnamese!!! The GREAT WHITE TEACHERS of CANADA teach all the kids including the coloured ones in elementary school anything is possible! So external merits to Vietnamese means crap now and growing up! You got to be internally compatible.
That is why after elementary school everything goes to crap and people fight, become racist, power struggle, divide and conquer. Elementary is where it is at. Everyone is smart and capable until the elementary teachers leave and you grow up.
We don’t think external about life and work as 2nd Generation Vietnamese born in Canada if you are full Vietnamese …
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But the East Asians and South Asians think life is all about external love and work, even 3 years old.
So that is why I avoid Black, White, South Asian and East Asian like the plague …
Full Vietnamese are just trying to learn work and live and the higher classes think we are trying something. Jesus!!! You learn and grow as a Vietnamese and neighbors bug me thinking I am protruding??? Are they lazy and stupid snorting? In real life, they are actually growing and living day-by-day??? What do you think Vietnamese are doing, they are also growing day-by-day.
Mixed Vietnamese are another story as they think in between or East Asian most of the time.
I had a few of them just want to befriend me based on external values without talking to me about what kind of chili pepper is good with nuoc mam for com tam in which season???
You can get help and eat com tam 5+ times a week living the life and they think life is about external gains because they hang around East Asian culture all day.
Full Vietnamese are told that anything is achievable so the mixed Vietnamese and East Asians and South Asians trying is a waste of time.
While other full Vietnamese women born in Canada are complaining about how stupid Canada is getting with more and more multiculturalism and government payments for just being you and mental illness of it all.
External quickly become internal too. Working hard and keeping busy is more an external thing and merit. But once you got your charge, then it is meaningless. It become internalized. Working hard and doing something you like is like OK. Now what?