So the answer to dealing with people is accept …

My dad told me in order to live like him, accept what other people treat you.

It got to that point where I could not take it anymore as a 2nd Gen Vietnamese from other coloured people labelling me.

So I say I am stupid and things finally mellow and we see each other human and level.

That is all life is. To see each other human and same and teach each other too.