Updates (Mar 17, 2026)
The secret is just to work.
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So after conversations … the routine is:
- Talk fun with your worldwide friends
- Talk business with your worldwide friends
- Repeat 1. 2.
- Repeat 1. 2.
- Reflect
- Think
- Somehow you solve the rumination and you get some new ideas
- Do some of the new ideas
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The trick is to think and build like forward people. That means build, learn, grow and open the mind like Western people.
As long as you can do that sometimes you are OK.
Sometimes as a Vietnamese 2nd gen, you must land thinking Vietnamese.
It is to recharge and fly again.
Listen to Vietnamese music before 1975 and some modern ones in 2022+.
Cycle back and forth.
That is the key. But always moving forward overall.
Like you should learn and grow all the time. Do that internally as the first goal. But if I think I do that, it seems odd and off. But everyone has the goal to learn and also escape to the beaches.
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You need to learn all the time like past immigrants. That is all it is.
Just know and acknowledge that quietly.
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Secret to running …
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The Full House …
In family as a whole unit people take roles as children and as adults when the family is struggling to become well.
But once they get older in their 40s it stops as it is a battle of ego, direction and staying relevant.
I am the youngest in the family now as my youngest sister is married and moved away.
There were problems in the beginning and now our family is good because I stayed good and believed in God. Our success with the studying and software and websites …
Now because I am youngest now even after the good things, the older people in the family strive for more and more treating me lesser and lesser and as the punching bag.
They become right and Western while I become wrong and Eastern. I get used and abused even after all the good things.
Aren’t we supposed to stay in our rooms reading fiction and non-fiction to enjoy life as we made enough strides? Thanks God, Thanks Canada and Thanks everyone!
The youngest helped fix the transcend the family because he is the middle child and now gets treated like the worst person in the world.
Now I got to move out of the house to my own house because I am the punching bag for them to practice their strength and power struggle with whomever for relevancy and good feelings.
That is just life.
That is how family’s grow and become fortunate and disband because the older siblings need to hold on to their strength and health and abuse the middle people and below in the family.
That is why in Americas everyone moves out from their parents houses to become independent.
It is just normal.
Now I got to move out and live on my own.
I got abused 3 times today. And that is just normal in North America. North America is just about survival and independence.
Anything good like doing great and making money and strides are good but worthless as the name of the game is independence and survival.
I had enough.
Maybe it is just the ‘Oshawa frequency for more and more work’ ?????????????????????????
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Now I understand why some men do work they hate and have a family and struggle but are happy at least they have kids to push them day to day.
If I continue to live my way and let my brother and sisters live their way, I will suffer too and never have a family of my own as we still work as a unit.
That is the dual edge, our family went the super super easy route and do what we like and not do normal staple Vietnamese jobs. Then none of the kids had their own kids.
But at least if you had a normal job you at least had kids. The normal struggle is the right. It is having kids.
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But this phenomenon was new. My mom is from An Giang Muong Trau so she is representing her turf.
But we live in Oshawa where we can get work and explore.
This combination worked.
But we must work hard and not spend time doing too much ‘art/creative work’ and do more logical work.
If you want kids and a family, you must do the labour and work hard for the wife.
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So in 2023, Sun Group company in Vietnam sponsored ‘Music Travel Love / Endless Summer (Old band name)’ to advertise Vietnam for travel.
This song is my life.
I don’t know what I am doing.
This reflects my life born in Oshawa, growing up in Ajax, educated a bit in Scarborough and moving back to Oshawa. With trips only back to Vietnam 6 times throughout my life.
Does Sun Group know me? The head person probably is old as my parents and could give birth to me. Probably understand me as he/she seen many people travel to and from Vietnam as they work in tourism and development.
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