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The secrets to my life:

Get university done (4 years). Need to do 4th year research course D-level to understand the vastness of education, academia and the world/universe and solo and collaborative research. Therefore you “get quiet”. There is too much to learn. A lot to learn before doing anything solo. You are still young at 22 and need more learning and research after finishing university.
Work 3-5 jobs (1. Physical, 2. Social, 3. Thinking, 4. Overseas as an English teacher, 5. Middle-age working physical jobs) then you realize your opportunities are endless and have to work hard to have anything worthwhile. Can not stop. You realize you are wasted potential and life is ongoing for the next 80+ years at your early 30s. Better do something worthwhile to “have good health” at least.
Work at the jobs you always wanted as a child. For me it was working at a computer repair shop. Then you realize that job is almost dead in the water and have to pivot doing programming and possibly web development at the end to have open-ended career.
Work with people that are miles and miles ahead of you (Ben Cybulski and Dmitry Nefedov) then you have unlimited growth and trajectory and guideline for life. They are ahead of you in life so you are getting helped overall which is perfect. Support at the end of the day outside your family. Real support. Find them in your field in real life and online.
But also live life socializing with like minded people from your culture and same birth origins. This way you have real growth and feel not alone in this world. Vietnamese born in Canada like me helped me realize life and growth and expansion and thinking right and positive. People from the same origins as you show you real, real life and growth and change your mindset to adapt better in this world both West and back home. Whole new perspectives from the same body.
Study everything you want first at school if you can or in the world by travelling and working.
Normalize work. Work at your job you always wanted and when you find it routine then move on if you can.
Take the time to finish a general 2-year computer programming diploma maybe. Get the “bare basics” and then try on your own after then quickly realizing school only taught you 1/1,000th of what is needed in the real world. You start to realize everything after is learning and researching and studying more and more day to day.
Focus on your personal projects to have that drive to learn and grow while having fun and enjoying. Maybe the only thing worthwhile at the end of the day. This takes awhile to achieve and figure out. Take your time to find ‘your thing’. If you are born in the West you can really take your time to figure out what you really like and go for it. This will bring benefits (bottom page) at the end so do it.
Realize it might take 8 years or more to be a full fledge web developer that can make good money. Take your time to realize this and see this through. Ignore your parents and siblings and cousins because this might be the ticket to freedom like working and travelling to do remote jobs on the beach. The skills are the top tier in the world. Just takes time and some enjoyment while doing it. If you are born in Canada like me, you should see this through and experience everything good in this life.
Learning that life was all logic, math or programming and the solitude of studying and working solo in life to have something of great/best value. Be unique to have a ground to stand on. Everything at the end is technology related to have that healthy ego in this world. Need to study more math related or programming related stuff but also live life.

Benefits that are worth it doing my way:

I finally got the rewards of doing my thing. Too many to list really. I can not describe what I feel until you do the same. You have to do it and experience this.
I have a wide audience that I can market to with Ben Cybulski and Dmitry Nefedov on our websites.
I advertise my cousins businesses in Vietnam and they make me feel good. I can continue to write my software and advertise forever probably. Helping family is the best feeling and reward. Feeling accomplished and up there. Programming gave me the freedom to do unlimited things and I share that with my cousins. Helping cousins (not brother or sisters) is the best feeling. Brother and sisters don’t understand each other but cousins do. Even 2nd cousins/aunties appreciate me. I guess it was family all along like South Asian cultures. When you pass normal expectations then life is great all day. I helped my family back home and it is the greatest feeling. Vietnam needs to work and develop. I am helping as I can and it is needed.
After you are acknowledged by your cousins, you have made it and then work on doing other things that will grow you wider and wiser. Like making money and making websites??? Your passion projects have brought you this far and now you look for something for more growth as you are fulfilled already. You have advertised your family businesses enough and now is the time to move on.
I built a couple of websites (code and using tools) and realize collaboration is key to move things forward with people and your life. Don’t expect to learn and do everything alone. You need people like Ben, Allan, and Dmitry to move in life. Don’t be is despair and do things alone. Work with people miles ahead of you that think 10x more positive than you.
You learn at the end that you need to learn more and more. Learn everything basically to have a life but enjoy your life. Take life day to day with people. That is what people don’t understand. You work and collab with people is key and enjoy and take your time. You find these people after school and after work. You work with people that give you life.

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