Updates (Dec 23, 2025)

Anxiety with women?

I had anxiety with women until I met Tammy Nguyen.

She is a child of Boat People born in Toronto.

I am from Oshawa only 60 km away.

So we get along.

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My brother and older sister get along with no one because they did not take the time to venture into Scarborough, Toronto to find Boat People.

My brother and older sister think they know better …

But all the awards, money and status won’t buy you understanding like a Boat Person.

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You have to venture to Toronto as a male child of Boat People.

Not in the other direction.

Males from Durham Region travel to Toronto.

Females the opposite direction.

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A Vietnamese man born in Durham Region must go to Toronto to learn the external behaviour of Toronto people and women.

Opposites attract.

I did the same like Tony Tie’s family and ventured doing my own thing. What I did was internal.

Therefore, I am attracted to women that are externally guided a bit.

Well opposites make motion.

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Therefore, my brother who is artistically driven must go to Toronto to realize that he must learn engineering (maths) to attract the opposite externally driven women regardless of how long it will take.

This is what I realized now …

When I went to to university in Scarborough back in 2002, I realized I messed up. The South and East Asians there (immigrants and natives) were studying maths since 0.5 year old. At the time I was 19 years old already and lived a fun life in the suburbs of Durham Region playing video games a lot and listening to the radio all day. I was behind 18 years compared to the immigrant studying next to me in class …

Fast forward 2009 – 2025, I studied enough logics and maths to finally become OK.

So it took me 16 years to catch up to normal Asians from the Old World.

It takes time, you can not rush it. Don’t panic. You live in the first world so you have all the supports. I was missing 18 years of maths by the time I was in 2nd year university. I had to recoup and 16 years after finishing university in 2009, I finally made up for it.

It is simple like that.

So to talk to women you need 18 years of logics.

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In 2018, I went home to Vietnam.

During a outing in the marsh, I met a tour guide.

He was older, looked very tanned and had a slightly different vibe than the rest of the Vietnamese there.

Then we talked and realized this.

He was a Vietnamese-American, who went back to Vietnam to work and live in Tourism.

Why? Why? Why?

Then I found out I was wrong.

In the West, especially in USA, male Vietnamese born in USA have a different frequency compared to American born Anglo-Saxons.

We get treated the opposite straight from the hospital.

Trying to start a relationship and family is so difficult when you vibe differently.

I think the limit is people from Saigon. Any male more Southerner born in the West have great difficulty living in the North Americas to start a family or life.

Saigonese and above have less trouble I think. It is all about frequency and natural resources.

Because I am from South Vietnam right on a Mekong river I don’t lack anything in terms of food and resources. My frequency is opposite to the people that lack. It is simple like that.

So when I apply for work in the West people dismiss me because I vibrate differently and think different from a person that lacks.

That is why I think after all I done here in Canada, I should still return home to Vietnam in the South to work in Tourism because I don’t lack.

I just figured it out now.

I was lack maths before but now I understand.

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