Updates (Dec 6, 2025)
The dilemma of life as a full Southern Vietnamese family living in Oshawa, Ontario, Canada …
Growing up the children took spots in family.
My brother is the oldest with the ideas. He leads.
My older sister is leading working with Oshawa people full time outside.
I hold the back keeping things in balance with doing the studying and doing the things the family needs.
The youngest sister is married and lives far, far away in the Maritimes …
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Things were going great in 2020 to now … Then you realize this problem after you have finally ‘built structure’.
Where are my kids? Where is my wife? I am 41 years old now. My older sister is unmarried, my older brother is unmarried too. My youngest sister still has no kids …
You can not function anymore without having your own kids and family.
Then you realize the problem with the North American experiment system with full Southern Vietnamese.
It doesn’t work to have a family here as Vietnamese born in Canada who are from the South. There are no aids or no supports and no compatible wives that truly understand the solo journeys of my brother and I who are Canadian born with our natural mindset. We are born ‘Canadian passive’ and born ‘soft’ doing our own thing. Doing our own thing for happiness and survival like every other North American born.
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Time to go back to Vietnam and restart the cycle like my parents did in the 1970s. 100% Vietnamese like me can not function in Canada to work normal jobs and have a family as I am naturally Buddhist (Phật Giáo Hòa Hảo) and from An Giang province so I just like farming naturally.
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Anyways …
I thank Canada (North America) for the opportunities for me to learn, develop and earn.
Lots of cool things happened in 41 years. I am Buddhist so I think positive so 60+ : 40- .
The dynamism was really neat.
I knew from intuition (like everyone else in the world … ) that if I waited long time after 35 years old to get stone cold old by living simply daily, I would one day get unflustered with the young adult crowd, I could build something one day just because I am ‘old’.
No surprises really. 125% young teenagers kind of know deep down in the back of their brain, old people in their late 30s to 40s can think and do whatever differently from the mainstream young adult culture. It is all intuition.
But the new generation of kids are hooked on dopamine-fixing social media that prevents them from growing up past the age of 7 since like 2020 – 2024 …
There are some good social media …
Things have changed a bit since … which is good.
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It is all strategy now to have proper kids who understand the system and play it right to be healthy and happy. Strategize to have a proper family and kids now. Well behaved kids.
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The problem …
The kids in this family are 2nd generation … South Vietnamese born in Durham Region whose parents are Boat People.
Hardly anyone really compatible with us.
If they are they are also Boat People children born in the GTA.
But Boat People children born in GTA need immigrants to marry them and have their children so they approach life with ferocity and actually go outside. Currently their Boat parents guide them and lead them and take them here and there. The children currently just stay home all the time and never go outside and never learn from others because of the Durham Region dynamics.
The children are just like other 2nd generation Vietnamese born in GTA. They want to do things they want.
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The reality of work and doing your thing in Vietnam …
In 2015, I went back to Vietnam …
What could I see and do there?
Because I was in my 30s (33) at the time, I knew how to think basic and a little older.
Startup and computer technology was starting to take off in Vietnam.
I even have a cousin in Long Xuyen, An Giang who helps up and incoming entrepreneurs.
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I knew I missed out not doing what I wanted when I was young which was computers … I came back in 2015 to Vietnam defeated because I never fought for myself while living in Canada like how Ben Cybulski and Allan Michael Lane taught me. I was taught to live passively and go with the flow before and got sick.
Then you realize, you are supposed to live for yourself in a first-world country and do and do and do all day.
If you don’t do, you become really sick and eventually move aboard. Move back home. This is because … see below …
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Then you realize you have to fight as a Vietnamese because you think opposite to the majority people here.
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As a 2nd generation I think opposite naturally to balance the racism and hierarchy that is naturally here. This way it brings new ideas through my equality thinking.
If you think above and push to see things like British and Russian from the Old World, the multiculturalism act in Canada is actually bad for South Vietnamese like me born here. It allows for hierarchal racism in a degrading way that doesn’t allow for open thinking and equality. It pushes people to a corner who think naturally opposite to the majority here. That means Southeast Asians like me get treated the worst because the majority frequency is opposite to my frequency.
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If you venture out to Indigenous places and meet Indigenous people you find their way of life is 200% natural to North America.
Everything immigrants do is to take resources from North America to satisfy and build their wants.
But as immigrants stay here for generations they too will become Indigenous overtime.
This leads to a duality of life. Trying to make money and do stuff to make it in the World while becoming Indigenous to the land.
This dynamic causes all the cool and good and bad things to happen in North America and what North Americans demand and do worldwide to other countries.
But the Europeans settlers that came to the New World are similar in frequency to the Indigenous a bit so that is why they are kind of civil to each other and also intermarry.
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My natural frequency is opposite to North America that is why I work and do this and that.
Will my frequency change? Not really in my generation.
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Talking about racism, cultural is nice and all but in reality it is frequency. Natural frequency.
We can work together and make money together if we try to work on the same frequency but at the end I don’t have kids and a family as a South Vietnamese so that means I am going home.
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We all knew this growing up. I knew when I was young growing up in Ajax, Ontario I did not match North America.
But Vietnam was not in good shape to go back in the 1990s – 2000s.
Now it good to go back.
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The secret to understanding people and the world was my grade 7 teacher explain to me to make friends with people worldwide by making pen pals.
I knew something was up in the back. But this pen pal writing activity showed I did not belong in Canada really and need to make the alliances with other people from countries that allied with Vietnam for the last 10,000 years. At the end of the day it is just compatible frequency and bridging.
Racism, name calling, unfair treatment is just because of unmatched frequency. Science???
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The worst part of living in Canada with my Boat People parents is that I have 2 frequencies. The Canadian one and the Vietnamese 2nd generation one.
My father forces me to think like a Vietnamese to grow and be strong.
Then I deflate and become a Canadian who stays at home all day doing my thing.
Eventually I will give up and go back home to Vietnam because my father and mother doesn’t see how being born in Canada affected me genetically and my frequency.
My parents vibe on a different frequency because they were born in Vietnam and lived 25+ years in Vietnam from birth.
Also they never learned sciences like me to understand frequency. They think life is just gusto and keeping moving to attain live and wealth and prosperity.
It is actually where you are born that affects you.
My parents never studied enough to understand this? Is this even a thing?
I believe it is after you have worked with British and Russians and Germans in the Old World and here.
It is all about frequency.
Most North Americans born 2-5 generation here bounce between their Old World frequency and New World.
North American men in the 50’s tell you the truth about how messed up life here is.
You have to work all day (at least keep reading) to keep from getting ruined and tap out when you feel you had enough living here.
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How I grew …
In Fall 2020, I was struggling making FreeTimeTech.com Windows 10 Debloater … I realized FTT’s Debloater will fail as Dmitry Nefedov (farag2/Sanctuary) Sophia projects were updated weekly/biweekly. The most updated script will prevail.
I created a version based on Dmitry Nefedov (farag2/Sanctuary) Sophia projects.
Dmitry Nefedov (farag2/Sanctuary) reached out to me from Moscow, Russia with (drew84) from Britain helping. Then my whole world changed. I got help and perspectives from the Old World which shattered my reality.
That is why things changed for me.
This is all because I did not do my thing when I was young and did not have pen pals from the Old World.
I grew 10x over the course of 3 years working with older experienced people and the Old World.
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People can complain and be racist and hateful … but when you grew up for the last 6 years with British and Russian support from the Old World … you can solve all issues with logic and science.
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The cool thing about being South Vietnamese from An Giang and Russia.
According to 10,000 years of migration history, people followed the coastline to migrate from Iran to Vietnam.
At the Mekong area there is a place where it is Buddhist Phật Giáo Hòa Hảo. People there are peaceful as things are abundant. Everywhere after that is based on money and survival.
As a Buddhist from An Giang Phật Giáo Hòa Hảo I am neutral.
I see the people straight North of me as Vietnamese that just walked northward.
The furthest North is Russia.
So Dmitry Nefedov is kind of a like a Vietnamese guy who lives in Siberia.
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Also polar ends of the world work well together. Russia is on the opposite end of South Vietnam on the mainland so we just easily work together. We balance each other out. South with North, North with South. It is just filling (compensate) for differences based on need (balance each other, opposite but matching frequencies).
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So what happened?
It is just that a Vietnamese guy born in Canada in Oshawa ‘GM country’ felt the need to build as a old, old man at 35+ years old (past prime) as he could not work in health care industry in the city of Toronto because of the opposite frequency there. South Vietnamese born in Oshawa vibrate differently from Toronto.
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So it took working with Ben Cybulski to push forward with his mindset doing his ideas and working internationally to have this. This occurs when you have grown up or hit 35.
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So this path took a South Vietnamese old, old guy taken out of Southeast Asia to do something different in the New World dynamics.
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The thing about being Vietnamese and being born overseas …
Vietnamese from the South like my specific family know living in the West like Oshawa has the following benefits:
- Oshawa and surrounding areas like Ajax support GM automobile manufacturing. Nghiep Tan Nguyen (David’s father) worked at DuPont finishes in Ajax.
- We can practically work with anyone in the GTA.
- We can work with people all the way to Nova Scotia too.
- We accept everyone to work with really.
- The dynamism of being South Vietnamese and living in Durham Region creates this.