Updates (Oct 15, 2025)

Lessons learned:

• Circle of friends – Your circle of friends can either make you feel good or bad. It affects your health.
• Evolving – Doing more studying in programming enables you to evolve yourself
• Mixing

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Things to note after making Vietnamese born in Canada:

• What opportunities do you have naturally in the World and in the West? What is you line in? Everyone has one I think. So are you really complaining?
• Uniqueness, what did you really want to do when you were 12 years old?
• Problems and struggles, what do you really daily struggle with that bothers you so much and even makes you sick?

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Vietnamese women and Vietnamese men born in the West

• Vietnamese women are really in their own world with the daily harsh subtle racism they get just living.
• Vietnamese men are out there on their own really and befriend whoever really helps them naturally.

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Vietnamese women born in Canada aren’t really that happy. Really any person born in Canada have this way of life that is ‘with nature’ and kind of depressive???

You see this when you get older.

No one is really happy …

My dad says once you are old and big and accomplished is that you have to have your own philosophy.

But really according to natives here, you just got to learn the maths … all day.

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I finally understanding people after I socialized with Vietnamese born in Canada. That was all it.

Immigrants and even normal people (coloured/not coloured) treat each other based on race so much and it does not really do anything to help 2nd generation kids.

It helps kind of. You kind of address it after being treated poorly but really 2nd generation kids should just stick together and enjoy life for the most part.

The more you play with 2nd gen, you build a network and layer.

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After having made friends with Vietnamese born in Canada, I realize this between natives and immigrants.

Natives have their own way of life as now they are 3rd or 4th generation +. They are in their own world battling their own problems.

Immigrants come here thinking they can make some money and have some presence. They don’t understand the struggles of natives. But their 2nd gen children do.

At the end it there is conflict because both are right.

And when the 2nd generation children do want to make money and have a family they run into the trouble like the natives do.

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