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Updates (July 11, 2025)

After blogging, I got advice.

Thank you.

I guess you got to open your mind more. Especially in the West.

Also when you get old, you think old and broad and whatever and above. Young people and inexperienced people haven’t realized it yet until you interact with them … you are supposed to get old and wise as that makes life easier … You let go and think broad and ‘think’. You think of alternatives and look at life differently.

The other day I got stereotyped. Then I realized I have my own life and mind separate from everyone really … Everyone is different to be honest. Especially at old age and for a person like me who is South Vietnamese who has gone through the trouble, I did whatever I could and wanted? …

Living in East GTA, I had to grow fast and more than other groups to have a foundation to stand on. That is just how it is. And that is normal for everyone.

When you grow old, old basically everyone becomes different and not defined by general terms. No one can really define anyone no more.

The media and out in public, people like to label and stereotype. But at the end that fails too as people grow and have different interests and lives of their own.

My passion projects don’t make any money.

Therefore, I get a stable OK job first outside just to live and have stuff and be on my own.

This will grow my mind and understanding of life. Think broader and broader and live bigger and bigger like the oldest people.

That is the trick. People younger and my age don’t think that ‘large, large’ yet. The goal is to think larger and be more and do more like the oldest people who have accomplished good stuff and good health over their lifetime.

I will still have my hobbies at least.

I am going to do jobs that give me flexibility I hope LOL! Hard to find jobs that give you time for yourself.

I learned from some people that you kind of go, go, go.

You just do the work and also do it your way.

In a way compete and do it yourself.

Do it for your sake.

You also do it at a high level too.

And that makes life feel good and becomes good.

Is that life? A live of doing stuff to feel good?

It can if it hits the mark for you and your wife.

But mostly life in the West is doing service jobs so everyone gets along … and the wheels turn.

What work makes you mad? Web development …

Vietnamese people actually like going forward, forward and doing stuff …

The secret to my life was just getting old and getting tired, tireless and bored. Restless I did things with the team for the last 4-5 years. The bad thing is that I did not have family or stable job. It is simple like that really.

Some people like what I am doing and want to do it too I think. But it was just getting really old and sacrifice of family and money.

But to do more, what’s that?

You need to transparent and open.

This enabled me to grow 1000%.

After I started socializing with Vietnamese from every medium, I grew and grew.

That means culture is something.

After finishing school, working and living … then you realize life was supporting.