Updates (Mar 29, 2026)

Holy shit life sucks here.

2nd generation Vietnamese born in Canada seem quite miserable the more I dig.

The matrix of love relationship and work for Vietnamese and Vietnamese from Vietnam

Topic	What was done	Aftermath	Opposite
Vietnamese from Vietnam in Canada modern day	After finishing school they get the top accounting jobs or IT jobs and realize they are top dog. They marry and have kids with their girlfriend that they immigrated with	They have their kids in Canada and have that 9 – 5 incredibly hard top job that all international students want. Vietnamese from Vietnam are one of the hardest working and got the job, family and house	Their children born in Canada realize how hard their parents work. The children are now 2nd generation Vietnamese and complain a lot.
Vietnamese born in Canada from 1975	This was the troubled group. Some were truly successful but some were not	A good number born in Canada did stuff worth mentioning	They mixed out a lot and did work in the services like real estate. Some became doctors and researchers and open businesses and companies.
Vietnamese refugees that came as children from 1975	They hustled and are usually the ones paving the way for all Vietnamese regardless of origin	Too many to list as they hold and have he true Vietnamese fighting spirit to live and are intertwine to the location where they live	No issues really. They are examples of true Vietnamese spirit and soul to learn from. The mixed out too a lot.
Vietnamese born in Canada from 2nd wave from the 1990s	They worked harder than the first wave as they wanted representation and confirmation and recognition	By voicing their opinion, perspectives and views they got recognized and heard by their peers and authorities	Now they sky is the limit
Vietnamese refugees that came as children from 1990	I am not sure but the ones born in Vietnam and come here are successful as they have Vietnamese grit and soul	I think they blend with the ones from 1975. Successful too.	No issues really. They also came on boat too some I think. They do have grit and resilience too.

When I understood this matrix in 2021-22, I did more and we got going.

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So basically, I was supposed to work in services and study Western Psychology and Western Sociology to get service work as a 2nd gen Vietnamese born in Canada.

But when I was working in 2016 here in Canada, I felt the need to do whatever I want.

And then 4 years later got to where I needed to be in 2020.

Is it that simple? Yes and no.

Secretly or out in the open people are strategizing and planning.

Most people care for their future I think if they are born here.

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Race and mixture

If a person is part white they can lean onto being white looking and white history to have leverage.

This applies to other mixes as well.

As a full South Vietnamese origin, I was told growing up I was the worst kind of Vietnamese. As I am dark and ugly.

Then when I go research about where I come from, the reasoning is there.

An Giang is the most agricultural province in Vietnam. We work hard to maintain the crops meaning we have intelligence. It makes us dark and ugly but everyone wants farming land and farming work at the end as it is a need.

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So the other day while shopping at a Asian grocery store, an Asian middle aged women called me really ugly and drove off.

But I am a full South Vietnamese farmer by my parents ???

That is why it is important to understand your Asian history and dynamics to counter Asian weird thinking.

That is why I work with my Canadian friends and could build the things.

Asian thinking for me makes me unnecessarily suffer.

But good thing I can order soy sauce and oyster sauce online now.

Avoiding immigrant middle age Asian women is a must for me as they try to state how bad I am without offering me time to interject so they save their sanity and ego and drive off. Remember I am 2nd generation Canadian so it doesn’t really bother me as I have things to do with my Canadian friends. I wonder how their Canadian children feel.

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The thing with hierarchy is that the darkest of the dark is supposed to serve.

But what happens when you are 25+ and live in the First World?

That is the question of this blog.

Some people are so racist that you got to be so careful and persuade them to see your way and help them …

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Everyone has their own triumph story like their own version of ‘Rocky’ here in North America.

But in Asian countries they just study so hard and just use their mind so eventually they become the PhD/MD with their group of friends who are on a similar path.

Am I right?

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This is so cool. A Vietnamese brother making and selling tofu in Angola.