Updates (Mar 28, 2026)

Funny thing about life …

KFC got rich and famous in his 60s. Now he is a legend forever and forever. His brand is cool.

When I went to Vietnam to marry in 2015 the women ask me why I don’t have 2x PhDs, 1x MBA, 1x MSc and some kind of medical license at the age of 33?

So I give up talking to Vietnamese from Vietnam most of the time because somehow they think that is realistic in North America. Yes, they probably heard it done before … but …

Then I realize in 2026, this speed of accomplishments depends on the number of relationships the woman has had ‘physically’ in Vietnam and where ever social networks she belongs in. Things have changed since my parents were dating in the 1970s.

Are we suppose to take the time to enjoy and learn something nice? Or are we in a rush?

I think the next ice age is a long time from now … Maybe in 100,000 years?

I think this applies anywhere in the world this problem with women.

Next stop … After you succeed a bit then you realize this …

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After realizing speedy women from Canada and Vietnam, you realize you don’t need women or anybody.

You just need 3 small cups of inexpensive coffee a day and some cookies. And water.

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So what gives?

I guess it depends on culture and number of partners the woman has had.

2nd generation Vietnamese born in Canada if they have had many partners they act the same too.

The more partners, the more depressed and wanting they are.

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So the answer is that after 50 years after the Vietnam War, people realize the mistake of having relationships focused on ‘that’. I got into relationships in the past and then learned life could be different. So I learned from other people and my mistakes. I am to blame too.

But secretly everyone knows dating and having multiple relationships causes you to think just in 3 layers small and needy. Only if you see guys who forgoes relationships for like 8 years then new things arises. Like new ideas in living and doing things. Even hanging around with females is wrong in groups as things quickly become sexual.

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So I kept to myself since 2018 and got this.

But everyone knows that … but we have modern culture telling us sex, drugs, rock and roll and DMing and liking social media influencers is the right way to live.

I am off Instagram so now I feel I can finally sleep a full 8 hours and feel human again like in 2004 when Facebook was new.

I take care of myself. I like sleep. I deserve sleep???

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Therefore, now I understand human from human. If a woman now is so pushy and wide eyed and a guy is so mean and bullish that means he is affected by his/her super excessive consumption of social media like Instagram and TikTok. This is scientifically proven 1000%. I have the evidence.

I am off Instagram and TikTok and am rested and relaxed without concern for instant impulses for a while now. I walk well. I am healthy. My head is not foggy or clouded. I have good moral judgement. I don’t treat people or label people.

Before Facebook, people were nice to each other and said “Hello!”. Now people recognize your skin colour and race and things you do to arise division and competition.

So screw social media. Facebook is barely OK. YouTube is not bad. Any other forms is instant gratification and quite garbage as I need my sleep and 2 hours sitting drinking a nice cup of coffee.

Coffee is more important than social media. No need to install social media apps like Instagram and TikTok to your cell phone, just a nice national newspaper subscription is good.

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If you live in Canada, a First World, you have the option to live discrete and however you want.

You can completely ignore your neighbour and others and live quietly minding your own business because that is freedom of First Worlds.

If some person says otherwise don’t listen.

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Like for example, I can sleep for 10 years at this very moment in Canada … It would stop the things I am doing but I can literally sleep forever that and no one could stop me. That is human and what is afforded to every human in First Worlds.

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Some say social media is the way to growth and make money for the world. Even all the bad stuff allowed on social media that authorities let pass through to get that 50 : 50.

I rather live off the grid and say screw it. Not my problem as I am a free man. Again that is 50 : 50.

So basically I am the one that doesn’t have Instagram and TikTok on my phone. That is all. I dealt with it.

At least I can sleep a full 8 hours. My full 8 hours of sleep is mine.

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Basically when I went outside the other day, people were up in my space.

All I did was make software and update it to make money and now people think of bad reasons. They look at the bad angle.

No one would know of who I am or get so ‘excited’ if there was no social media.

People are hooked on social media like a drug addict and treat people bad within a nanosecond because social media ruined their social skills and self control.

Screw it. The world has turn to crap because of social media mainly and also computers in general. So I am to blame too?

I have my team and its great. Now when I go outside I have to deal with hooked social media people.

Is it worth it to have a family with 2 kids, 2-car house mortgage in the suburbs, work 20+ years in health care caring for social media addicts in the First World?

Or better in the 3rd World selling grilled sweet potatoes in a makeshift selling grilling wooden cart?

I finally got to a point where people are labeling me bad because they can no longer handle a SEA 2nd gen Vietnamese in public.

I guess I am moving.

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Good thing I stopped spending.

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Because I am not higher born East Asian/White with that East Asian/White aura??? I get hate from other Asians who think Vietnamese should serve for a living.

Finally getting hate in public in Canada from ‘other Asians’ because …

That means I have to move.

But in time.

I have 1-2 projects left.

But in reality I have a lot.

I live in Canada and am given a lot.

Seriously, my life is pretty good.

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Supposedly, according to ‘other Asians’ I have enough because they bash me now even as a 2nd gen Vietnamese when I go shopping for soy sauce. So I got to listen or get in trouble. All I need to do now is get married and have my kids.

My immigrant dad warned me of being this way. He says to keep my wants limited but stay level and ‘busy’.

As long as I have a roof, heat, water I am good here in Canada. AC is optional.

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