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I finally understand life now and am comfortable.

Years before I did not understand my people and race relations in the West.

Yes, we all envy other races that are better or have something else that we might want.

But we need each other to learn from.

Some races have it easy while some don’t.

This allows for steady work and dynamism.

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Why does my brother and I continue to do what we like at 40+?

Some Vietnamese in the USA also do stuff like Tony Tie’s family. There are others too.

I guess it feels good. Vietnam finally got it’s independence in 1945 and we are now enjoying the freedoms.

But this is external growth? Is external growth needed here in Canada? Yes, mostly.

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My father expects me still to do healthcare and work 9 – 5 … My dad says at the end people will treat you right and people are just people at the end of the day.

People learn and grow together in healthcare and that is the trick and equalizer mostly. That is the ‘thing, thing’ in medicine that people know or don’t know. We are constantly learning and analyzing in medicine so we get the benefit of learning from people and learning in general. We may not code the MRI system or the next AI model but we have the capability almost from just working in healthcare. Smart care.

Doing our current stuff is great and it had some impact. But you should just work, work … save enough money to retire? My dad works everyday and learns everyday so he learns a lot too and does stuff. It is healthy enough.

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The problem with dating as a Vietnamese born in the West.

You are supposed to find the woman who sees just your inner child. And you also see her inner child. The race thing is a problem for Vietnamese born in the West. You are suppose to see each other as the baseline and somehow work. The external growth and physical part is an addition???

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What happens when Vietnamese born in the West man and woman reach 35? Women generally are more mature than men by double.

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The oddest thing that happens to Vietnamese born in the West is around the time they are doing 4th year D-level ‘research’ course.

They arrive at 2 questions:

  1. Is it it? Is life about doing research?
  2. Can I continue this?

But the real deal is when you are actually finished school and eating dinner at your favourite burger place.

Was Western life really about ‘just school’ in Canada?

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What is life really after mid-life in Canada as a Vietnamese born in Canada?

The more you get older you either realize either life starts at 40 or you just live routine 9 – 5 in some cool healthcare work I think as a Vietnamese born in Canada.

You can try and try and try at 40 doing your thing to get that good feeling or growth and accomplishments.

Or live caring and smart as a healthcare worker working among other healthcare workers as a unit.

I tried and tried at 36 years old and now I am 41 years old. I learned a lot and grew a lot and surprisingly I had some accomplishments which I am grateful for.

To scale more is so tiring. My health is not really good as I am stressed. All you need at this point is one project like all the greats do … That is the trick. Most people like to eat the buffet but really you just need a junior cheeseburger.

You realize doing this is so much external growth and feeds you hungrily and makes you overeat for me. Then I guess you return to care work where you change your mindset and lifestyle to care and learn. That is 99% OK work.

The people in healthcare working kind of know this that healthcare work is 99% good. The entrepreneur doing this and that is the best but will you find peace in what you really want? Or are you overeating? Or is hunger the game? Jesus I am old now … If I overeat I will get sick???

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What working with the team taught me …

Working on the Sophia Projects with the team taught me how do develop everything else.

But the most important thing was to just focus on Sophia Wrapper mainly.

Steady graduated learning that is step wise mostly.

Living out in the real world without a logical foundation is hell. If I was a paramedic I would be full of emotion I think and it would be bad.

Have one project to do in computers like Sophia Script for Windows allows me a good life that is learning and also stressful but not full of emotion that can jostle you 180 degrees.

But probably you need programming first? to build that foundation of logic to deal with whatever is out there? You definitely need your own time to relax and enjoy and rest to feel at peace and feel good. You need you to grow and feel grown and good.

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Grow up till you are 35 – 37 years old, get past your young adulthood of having fun all the time and spending your parents money …

What is my line-in in Canada?

What is my line-in Vietnam?

  • Teaching English and maybe teaching computers (Office and some programming) now since I finished a 2-year programming diploma???

What is my line-in the World?

  • Working with my friends online the Sophia Projects with farag2 (Dmitry Nefedov) and Inestic (Dmitry Demin) from Russia and my friend Wolfgang Brand (Drew) from Britain and others.