Updates (Sept 17, 2025)

Are things new?

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Basically Vietnamese came in masses to the West after the Vietnam War.

Here in Oshawa, my Vietnamese from Vietnam friend Viktor Phan made a FB group for the college and university here for Vietnamese students I think in 2018 finally.

I created a Discord for it later.

So things are new. Definitely new for Vietnamese.

Also I am one of the oldest in this area. I am one of the admins for the FB group and Discord.

Things are anew.

With new stuff comes new stuff.

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What I learned when I got out of the matrix …

You are supposed to go on your ‘thread’ and see where that goes … keep going on your ‘thread’ and see what happens after 5 years.

In the West, people say the worst things about you and your people.

People keep that at a constant especially when coloured are around coloured people.

How to live then if it is all the worst negative Western stereotypes? Walk on your own thread.

This should be intuition (living for yourself and see where it takes you in the West), but out in the world and public, boxed-in 200% negative stereotypes is what people think and expect of others.

You have to see this a few times when you are walking your own thread for a few years to understand you must live for yourself for your happiness and just to live.

Go out on your tangent and walk, walk and walk …

After a while you realize you are old (I am 40s) and the people criticizing you are usually younger so they think in different sides. This also depends on their culture and depends if they come from developed or developing countries. People who come from developing countries don’t criticize really as they are growing and feeling their way up there in their world surroundings. Things are anew with people coming from developing countries that developed countries may or may not understand as things are anew.

So it is best to keep walking with your friends and don’t take things personally as your people from developing countries are open and live based on developing societies and developing life. Not taking sides or being polar.

Again walk your own path and thread as that is probably the only way to live because the outside world society maybe to negative to even function for yourself.

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You are supposed to work and develop for the woman worth it. That is all there is to life.

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