Updates (July 14, 2025)

Have a descent life and family … I live in Canada. Things should be OK regardless. Just a little ‘speck’ is needed.

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After socializing with old as me Vietnamese in the West like me, I realize this:

• Previously before from May 2020 to now, I was pushed by immigrants to fulfill a life of work, study for external validation.
• I now realize they aren’t talking to my soul. They don’t connect with me to my root.
• I lived a life of external validation for the last 5 years because of outside groups telling me how to live.
• Vietnamese like me at my age expanded my mind to understand external validation basically has no meaning. Vietnamese like me, like me for who I am in my being. Work and study is just something added. Old Vietnamese like me don’t count work, money or education. There is this feeling and bond with Vietnamese like me now.
• My parents, brother and sisters don’t really count. Everyone is different. I got the connection now from Vietnamese like me. So it means real solid bonds are cultural and similar people living in this world.
• But if I did not grow and socialize for the previous 5 years, I would never have grown too and would not have connected with these similar people.

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When you meet people who live your same life as a coloured person in the West your age (Vietnamese born in Canada and middle-aged), then you solidified life in the West.

I finally found people like me in the West … but I had to grow up and do stuff tons … Hanging out in East GTA was a whole different world.

Now I don’t get upset no more.

You don’t get upset at your parents or siblings no more once you found basically a replica of you in the world.

You don’t get upset at anyone.

But in Vietnam it is a different complex scenario as there are some people wishing to go to the West … The focus is what is America doing.

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