Updates (March 23, 2025)
I guess life gets to a point that you just live to think. Being able to think.
After all the negativity and socialization and interactions that are good and bad, it is to think good and developing with everything.
That is what I learned after school and working and socializing for the last 2 years.
It is thinking like a politician really.
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Life is to think good developing. If you don’t then there is no life. Nothing to think about. You can not sit around doing nothing.
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Vietnam might take another 20 – 40 years to develop like the other developed countries in Asia.
That would make travelling easier and more relaxing.
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What do you do when your home country is a developing country rather than a developed one?
I guess you work to develop yourself all the time and have a good productive developed life.
That way you feel good all the time against naysayers and negative people.
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What is the secrets to living a good life born in Canada for me? Especially for a Vietnamese man who is from a developing country?
- It was to do your thing against all odds. Not worrying about any negative backwards push or comments or control in society and work with forward people like Ben Cybulski and Dmitry Nefedov.
You can actually live this way. Just avoid negative people saying negative things because that is negative and not positive for good feelings. It has to be good feelings I think.
If you are from a developed country then their is no worries.
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It seems all the negative naysayers I get (negative projections) are from developing countries. They don’t want a Vietnamese man to develop.
Developed countries are just having fun doing cool things cause they have no worries I guess.
People from developing countries aren’t happy in general … like me.
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I realized two good things to have a better life this year:
- Keep busy and do some work constantly.
- Learn more structure. Learn deep structure.
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I am so lucky to be born in Canada and be Vietnamese.
I have the supports and good culture.
But I always had a problem as Vietnam is a developing country. Something not to be proud of but is.
But in 2025, lots of developed countries are supporting Vietnam.
Things have to be developed to feel positive and in the plus.
That is why I worked hard to be in the positive.
The developing origin mindset creates this persona of mine. But it is also bad.
As you are still growing and naysayers have their way sometimes and try to pin you bad.
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If I continue to work with Ben Cybulski everything is possible.
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- Get university done (4 years). Need to do 4th year research course. D-level to understand the vastness of education, academia and the world/universe. Therefore you “get quiet”. There is too much to learn. A lot to learn before doing anything solo. You are still young at 22 and need more learning and research after finishing university.
- Work 3-5 jobs (1. Physical, 2. Social, 3. Thinking, 4. Overseas as an English teacher, 5. Middle-age working physical jobs) then you realize your opportunities are endless and have to work hard to have anything worthwhile. You realize you are wasted potential and life is ongoing for the next 80+ years at early 30s. Better do something worthwhile to “have health” at least.
- Work at the jobs you always wanted as a child. For me it was working at a computer repair shop. Then you realize that job is almost dead in the water and have to pivot doing programming and possibly at the end web development to have open ended career.
- Work with people that are miles and miles ahead of you (Ben Cybulski and Dmitry Nefedov) then you have unlimited growth and trajectory and guideline at the end. They are ahead of you in life so you are getting helped overall which is perfect. Support at the end of the day outside your family.
- But also live life socializing with like minded people from your culture and same birth origins. This way you have real growth and not alone in this world. Vietnamese born in Canada like me helped me realize life and growth and expansion and thinking right and positive.
- Take the time to finish a general 2-year computer programming diploma maybe. Get the “bare basics” and try on your own after quickly realizing school only taught you 1/1,000th of what is needed in the real world. You start to realize everything is learning and researching and studying more and more.
- Focus on your personal projects to have that drive to learn and grow while having fun. Maybe the only thing worthwhile at the end of the day.
- Realize it might take 8 years or more to be a full fledge web developer that can make bank. Take your time to realize this and see this through. Ignore your parents and siblings and cousins because this might be the ticket to freedom like working and travelling remote jobs. The skills are the top tier in the world. Just takes time and some enjoyment while doing it.
- Learning the life was all logic, programming and math and the solitude of studying and working solo in life to have something of great/best value. Be unique to have a ground to stand on. Everything at the end is technology related to have that healthy ego in the world. Need to study more math related or programming related stuff but also live life.