Updates (March 22, 2025)
I have a friend older than me who thinks more mature and better than me by miles and miles.
He helps me develop my softwares.
I am amazed what living in another parts of the world can do to people.
I guess there are just different personalities out in the world that strive independently than rather conform. Or is it an age thing?
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Living routine is also good I see.
The West was designed to live and work routine? That way people just go with the flow?
But if you don’t think large and farthest you can, what is life? Sickness and despair? You have to think farther and father and farthest.
I could not think far as now working normally I think.
It maybe that you think on the job?
My sisters don’t think far as me and not as healthy as me …
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My dad thinks for himself.
He said one day you will develop a philosophy of life that helps you remain feeling and thinking good.
Basically after all the negativity from people and society and life struggle of having your own life and family and work, you develop your own way of thought that is positive and forward for life.
I think it is true now.
I get so many negative projections as a old man now that I realize the best way of health is to do thing my way for the sake of my work and life.
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I think it is important when you get old to become wise. But see why your father is wise and able in the West.
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Having the opposite gender in your life is everything for growth.
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If I lived in Vietnam, what would my life be in technology? Working remote sound good still.
Who has the skills to work remote? I think that require 10 years of work experience on average or more.
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After posting on MDL (My Digital Life) forums: https://forums.mydigitallife.net/ I gained quite a few friends.
I have a friend from the UK and Mexico that are older than me.
We talk very mature adult stuff on Telegram.
I guess that is life.
You have younger people and older people as friends in life once you get old enough to work and post on forums like My Digital Life.
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I can and can not handle the competition of working outside professional jobs.
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My dream job is to work remotely in the tropics.
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Work is really hard in computers. I am developing day after day and resting but it is taking forever to make money.
But I guess that is life …
Lucky I am born in Canada to realize this work and lifestyle.
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It seems the life now is to compute for all the good feelings.
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When I was in my early 20’s, elders and teachers here in Canada did not teach that extra 1000 miles in life at school or at work really. Or it was painted “red” and not to go farther but whatever … Everyone learns at the end …
As a lone Vietnamese, I had to figure out life just like my father did.
There is more to life than the Western or general Vietnamese experience???
You learn this by working and when you are old, old.
Working alone with your friends and just being old, you learn life has no boundaries in soul searching and meaning and interests and thinking.
When you have worked a ton in thinking jobs, then you question everything and go more deeper.
There has to be more thinking and meaning to life.
At old age, all you do is think really deep.
That is what my father tried to teach me. How to think and think deeper. Or else there is nothing. No thinking. Goes nowhere. Doesn’t feel good. Doesn’t do anything.
You get old and life has deeper meaning. Eventually that is what happens.
Then you realize you have matured and now can have a family and children of your own. Maturity from socialization and socialization with same culture, same wavelength friends.
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Sometimes people, young people, label people.
It doesn’t do any good when you are old and young people label you.
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I went to the doctor today for my mom around 12 noon.
I met the staff.
Some cultures live a balanced life. The right life?
I am amused and see it good.
Right in the middle???
I might be thinking too much or too little?
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If you live a balanced life, you believe in half and half.
You believe in the relationship of work, education, family and health and medicine.
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I got to this middle-age point in life where it can go 2 ways:
- Keep working with the greats
- Live a balanced life
This is because I worked with the greats for 8 years and worked on web development twice after finishing school. This high level of work and push cemented me and gave me options.
Also this is what man needs. Men need “the work” so he can be skilled and then decide.
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The secret to living a good life in the West as a Vietnamese person (in my case) was to study and study doing your thing. This way when people outside criticize you or try to mistreat you, you have the knowledge and specialize skills and specialized talent that will nullify everything when you are outside.
That was all it was.
When I was studying and studying more home alone because I am an old fart and regularly get negatively projected against all the time by young adults, I reached the other side. The other side is uniqueness and respect.
Good thing I did not go negative as I am lucky to have gained enough skills and accomplishments and my culture is not bad. We have things to share to the world as a Vietnamese person. Vietnamese food and culture is pretty unique and sweet. So I am grateful. The fusion of Vietnamese food is the combination of sweet, tangy, spicy and salty is what is unique about Vietnamese food.
I was born a Vietnamese person and really there isn’t anything bad about it.
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Face-to-face on this earth, man-to-man, probably the greatest thing to do is hide in the darkness doing something great. No social media posting presence.
With computer programming you can do this when you do something, something. Also with a team of great people. Well older people who have cemented passions and drives.
What about God? What I am doing so far isn’t really that good. I should be doing something more humane?
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It is either working 100% forward like Westerners or what????
I learned this at the doctors office today … The staff are very forward, more forward then balanced.
I can not work 100% forward … can I?
Work 100% forward and then what? Then what as an Asian man?
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The cool thing I realized in life here in Canada is that differences in lifestyle.
I can really live away from everything doing my thing hopefully getting a life of my own.
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At the end of the scuffle, what do you do at 41 years of age? You do new things.
There is nothing else that you need to do or learn or hesitate. Just trying to think.
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How do you make money in computer programming?
Pain points.
What are the current pain points in web development?
Cheaper more unique for standard companies.