Updates (January 10, 2025)
Things to life:
- You do stuff. But doing stuff at an old age is to improve. Improve your life. Young stuff is the past and does nothing much.
- You then learn and socialize with different people to learn together and grow. Collab.
- Some groups don’t like that ‘you try’ but you have to grow and improve anyways as that shows that you have ‘life’ in you. You are fighting for life. Then the groups see that and acknowledge that at the end. You got to live and try hard. Change perceptions and changing things helps fix and develop. Develop beyond? People respect that.
- At the end of the day, fourth is to understand is life is to do what you like. You do this and that but at the end of the day you really want to do the things you enjoy. Coffee :)! That is everything in life. All good things. You don’t really see that until you grow up a lot. You don’t want to deal with people really. You find work to find time to relax and sleep and enjoy.
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Computers are really a lot of work. So much. To make money doing this as a job is a lot a lot. I did not realize this until I socialized with (John) Duy Tan Vu. The amount of work is 10:1??? at least.
You really have to do this for life. Hard work is necessary. This is almost the hardest type of work. It prepares you for life and any other job after I think. Logic builds everything …
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After everything (school, work, general socializing), you realize there is so much to do or can do. You don’t really need to do so much and just do your own thing to be calm and present and well. Many young people and some groups push their ideas and culture but the main culture is the “old West”. That is taking the time and energy to concentrate on your fun and business independently.
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After I socialized and worked a lot, I realize what about your children … ?
I guess I can work harder. I realize this now. Work with a bigger mind and harder. I got to work as hard as my friends. These friends showed me the light. Vietnamese hard working mindset and goodness always.
Once I got work down pat, then I can think more abundant and good. Key is abundance.
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Pushing work is really different from hobbies. It takes time to build my friends way. I wonder if my way is bad??? Got to mix it up and do the hard working way too???
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Working with Ben Cybulski, the whole entire landscape changed. You are using the mind now. 100% of the mind and more. And reaching.
Working with Ben for an extended time ruled out general stereotypes and thinking. It took a long sweet time. Took me almost 8 years.
I grew up being stereotyped my whole life born in Canada. (I get it. That is my life here in Canada. It is not bad. It is just life.) Then working with Ben and Dmitry I grew and grew and social jobs with their labelling don’t matter no more. Focus on the good broad thinking.
When people see that you project beyond your stereotype and beyond your mind and beyond your age, they stop labelling and projecting negativity and stop projecting general stereotypes.
Things stop. It is fascinating.
To work and continue to work with Ben pushes you out further and further.
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Being Vietnamese is tough. No one really expects anything from you which is good and bad. But I am old now LOL! It is a new chapter. People grow old and things just rise and change as you get old. Many people in the 50’s and below expect “the system” to play out and produce menial general laborers. Old people in the 70s expect new novel things to get out of the woodwork at times. It is all age and experience at the end. It really draws out and solidifies into some bridge and pathway as you go.
Surprising young people on how I think now is good. No one expect a Vietnamese guy to do stuff.
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When most people live generally, it is nice to live different.