Updates (October 16, 2024)
To have something special is to pursue what you are really passionate about.
If I never did my niche area, I wouldn’t feel full and have some angle.
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To have a full life requires you to prepare for middle-age and old age. That means formal education and being skilled is required.
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Interesting thing about life is this …
You can live all day doing your thing and have your life but what about this …
My life stagnated at 35 years old. It became a normal thing of getting older and weaker. Now getting older is improving knowledge in life. Improve my life in things to live, to enjoy and to expand. It was this cycle of this.
Then after you have done what you wanted in life, got your papers, did work then how do you live after? You see how important your perspective changes when I take a look at Ben Cybulski viewpoint. Looking at Ben’s perspective again after doing what I wanted, solves the problems of “my” growing pains of learning more, growing wise and open. Differences get minimized and culture and biases mean nothing. Looking at his point of view solves all anguish and frustration of growing …
Ben just states how things are and how to solve them without the emotional or cultural burden.
Is this what you look up to???
Normally people compare, grow and compete. Now with Ben’s perspective things are just “be”. That is a way to live. It is definitely a way to be and exist especially at older age.
Was that a key to growing up? Was Ben’s perspective a way? Is a part of life? I think yes.
To have a complete life is to understand everyone.