Updates (January 16, 2025)
After going back and forth testing out lifestyles here in the West, I have come to the conclusion … It is the Western way of living that you should embrace really.
That includes:
- Doing thinking work at the end. Striving for thinking work settles all problems in life in the West. It is health. It is keeping busy to avoid negative thinking and too much rumination.
- Don’t listen to other cultures really. The Western way is probably the most forward. If you listen to other cultures you get into misunderstandings and no health of the mind, body and spirit. After school and first jobs, everyone realizes being forward is correct. You have to touch base and meet a lot of people in all skills, experiences and ages to realize that being forward is the only thing that is health. You might think living in your culture and other cultures is right but at the end of 41 years old for me, you realize it ain’t healthy. You must push forward everyday or else get sick, lazy and fat.
- Working with people better than you is all that matters really to get life. To get to the maximum is to work with the greats. People like Ben Cybulski and other tech CEOs. This is probably how life really is in the West if you look at it from the Western standpoint. If you are born with some brains, then it is just befriending the greats and working with them to give you space, opportunity and work for life as they are greats. It was a struggle to learn and to understand. But you must think like a man. I thought before I could have a simple routine life but that ended up making me feeling odd not aspiring for “my health”. The more work you do with the greats that is all beneficial for all mind, body and spirit.
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If you know you know, being forward was the answer. Every kid born in the West knows this really … You can not really shake this off and live routine once you know this.
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It is not the general forward way that the media and other people present. It is with greats like Ben and Dmitry … people your same frequency that adds life and character to work and life. Being a drone working like everybody else does routine work and drone work. Drone work is stress to produce??? efficiency and streamlining and all-in-ones.
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Maybe this is life? Just working with Ben, Dmitry and Simon. This is definitely a guy thing and “working”.
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So working with Ben, Dmitry and Simon will allow that lifestyle of work and thinking … Is there anything else now? I played with different lifestyles and thought really far out. What else is there?
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Funny thing I realized now about living in Canada, I never developed my mind and individualized culture until later in life. I did not have the supports to make me complete. I did not seek out also … I did not have a Vietnamese person born in Canada to help me in the beginning.
So knowing not much, I kept learning and doing. Doing universal building things and then saw how other people reacted. I saw they displayed segregation and no support when I had a thing going on. I was just doing my own thing and then when I had something of some value and had my own thing and thinking, then people started showing their difference and objection. They did not want Vietnamese guy like me to display anything of value.
That is the thing, do your thing regardless of whatever people say because you are winging it really in the West. You have that opportunity to think and do anything you want here and there are people that see that and support and acknowledge that. It is not money, job, or professional careers. It is how you really think individualistically to set your groove to add something to the wall. It is also about differing opinions and seeing how it plays out.
But also it is about maybe working with the greats like Ben Cybulski and letting your mind go to see and reach thinking like Ben.
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What I hate about cultures are ethnocentrism. For most young people below 40 they have a fixed view of culture and people. You got to avoid these type of people.
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There is working with the greats and different growth peaks I realized more. There is some mind benefits that I can look forward too.
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There are 2 groups of people I realize now:
- Open minded to live and grow.
- Biased people who don’t grow.
You have to be smart and open minded and continually grow to handle both types of people. Show the biased people there are open areas to think and grow and do things without stagnating growth and spirit.