Updates (December 22, 2024)
Points to consider:
- To live great is to believe in yourself to almost the point of delusion. Not all the time though. Some work requires you do be direct and realistic.
- Best way to live in Canada is to trust your instincts instead if just analysis
- Live educated always
- Be a teacher and live the way of a teacher for good balance
- Plan 10 years ahead. What do you want 10 years from now?
- Really take the time to enjoy and learn here in Canada. If you are born here there is no rush. Who cares what your parents or anyone says really. If you are born here just take your time for your health. But do have some urgency and proaction.
- Believe in yourself and show up for yourself. It might take years but really work on yourself. You might be pressured to do superficial things but you know the real world picture and it requires hard work and doing good things.
At the end of the day when you are 50 years old full of wrinkles, gray hair and weak bodied, all you have is your accomplishments and your mind and mindset. You can really do that here in Canada. I realized this when I turned 35.
When I went to Scarborough for college, I realized it may be better to do all the above instead.
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This is the quirk of about life. You have to believe in yourself to a point of delusion to live. It is delusional but it makes you live. Especially for a colored person you have to against all the naysayer and bad group dynamics.
You do it until it works and is an example for you and your group.
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You might get to this point in life …
You might be so deep into yourself that you forget you can work with Ben Cybulski.
You might have problems you have not dealt with first for yourself.
You might not have the skills to deal with your problems first.
You haven’t reached self-actualization yet.
Then their are Ben’s ideas at the end. You have to work with him for at least 4-5 years to know him and his ideas.