Updates (August 24, 2024)
When you have socialized enough after accomplishing your personal goals and relaxed and reflected and worked (everyone needs to work as that is standard), you realize there is nothing wrong with what you are actually doing with yourself to make you happy. Talking with the opposite sex from your culture, you realize you are just doing what makes you feel good, healthy and worthwhile with people who see it just that way without any negativity or bad criticism. So your actions does depend on your culture, the opposite sex and people on your same frequency. At least people on your frequency will understand and support you.
It is basically just people on your frequency or better frequency and who only think positive that you get this understanding and support.
Basically people who walked similar paths and are nicer and more open and more positive than you. Those people are worth socializing with to open and broaden your horizons as they are open to.