Updates (Jan 24, 2026)
So I went to the doctors the other day for my mom and understood this …
People will be people.
People are linear.
When people have children or at an uncle age, they relax and expect everything under the sun.
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In beautiful safe supportive North America … what you can do is just do your tangents (hobbies) all day.
Outside there are 2 large groups that ignore the needs and wants of others 115%.
Therefore, you just do you as that is life in the broadest sense.
North America actually supports all this because that is real life in the fullest form. Who other than North America? North America + the Old World.
Let’s not talk about frequency and the aftermath of changing frequency in current location.
Let’s not talk about children born in the West either.
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Modern life … 21st century living for Vietnamese born in Canada.
What is it?
What started it?
Where did it go?
What is it now?
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There is a network among Vietnamese in Toronto.
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Vietnamese outside Toronto are what?
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To get away from being an outsider from the 2 main groups outside in the World … you just do your tangents as life can be determined and defined by others like you. It always has been …
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Life is so linear outside … but as an old man who is turning 42 years old … there is no real point of going outside unless you are going to see a doctor or get a coffee and donut.
Young people and single people are outside …
Ordering online is good enough.
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There is a network of Vietnamese in Toronto.
I got inputs from working with the Old World.
It helped me significantly.
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The more people act this and that … you end up further going a way that reflects the opposite is also true.
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Nothing really makes sense how we treat people in the West I realize now.
The West brings people from other countries and when those immigrants come here they start acting like a combination of Old World with the New World and it is pretty awful.
What did the Indigenous Peoples want? How did they treat outsiders?
It is like that and our dislikes combined and it turns out pretty nasty.
I guess it is better to live in your community and that is determined by frequency. There are places in North America where certain groups live??? Thrive?
Not sure about this.
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Going outside the other day … I was met with problems from others.
Simply I am an old guy and met younger people and less coloured … ugh …
Life is good in Canada no need to preach.
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I am not part of the 2 large groups outside … so I had to do things my way for my own livelihood and sanity.
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So because I am neutral overall as a Funan person … If I get polarized I flip to balance.
That means I can only really work with other Vietnamese or neutral people.
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What do Vietnamese women born in Ontario,Canada, GTA want?
What is realistic?
What is realistic in Canada?
What is realistic in the World?
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What do Vietnamese want really?
There is intelligence, skill and experience in comparison to other Asians …
But at the core how is life as a Vietnamese residing in Toronto?
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There is a Vietnamese way of living.
But where?
Is it on Spadina?
Midland?
Durham Region?
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What is going on? Who is old? Who is doing stuff?
Am I doing anything? What now? Should I be doing stuff?
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When I was working at a fast food chain …
One coworker said it plainly and simple … “What are you doing?”.
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After finishing school in 2023 … 2026 came around an I was stressed so much.
People started turning old. All my friends started thinking about more.
Approaching mid-life “mid-life crisis” … my friends and 50 years after the Vietnam War, people turned from superficial living to inward growth as ancient philosophers of the past and greats.
Life got stressful and I deleted my personal Facebook and deleted my open Instagram accounts.
Growth and tangents became too much to process. All I can handle is myself???
The outside world was going this and that.
Was it too linear? Was it too tangent? Only older people can handle the daily stressors or people really colored.
How to make money, how to live and how to feel grounded? While outside? While being a full South Vietnamese born in Canada?
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The solution for a full South Vietnamese to handle and have a grip on life in the Western External world is to do your tangents with your friends all day.
Outside doesn’t help as the 2-3 main groups are fighting each other over produce.
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