{"id":13,"date":"2026-05-28T10:41:04","date_gmt":"2026-05-28T10:41:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/?p=13"},"modified":"2026-06-05T13:48:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-05T13:48:11","slug":"simply-you-have-to-go-and-be-positive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/2026\/05\/28\/simply-you-have-to-go-and-be-positive\/","title":{"rendered":"Simply you have to go and be positive"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Where my parents are from is a negative and a negative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Born in Canada is a negative &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What does that produce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You have no choice at the bottom but to go up against all norms or you don&#8217;t feel good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a 2nd generation Vietnamese born in Canada, all I can do is stay home and produce positive things otherwise I will be cleaning snot all day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It got to a point where if I want a 20+ year healthcare government pension, I clean for 20+ years.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Where my parents are from is a negative and a negative. Born in Canada is a negative &#8230; What does that produce? You have no choice at the bottom but to go up against all norms or you don&#8217;t feel good. As a 2nd generation Vietnamese born in Canada, all I can do is stay [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-normal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions\/35"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/firstgenprogrammer.com\/selfhelp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}